Work on recharging your batteries so that you can put positive juice into the relationship.
Putting pressure on a man is never a good strategy and will often drive him away.
Be confident in yourself and try to internalize the fact that you deserve an amazing relationship and with the right person it will happen freely and won’t need to be forced.
Doubts are normal, especially as a relationship deepens.
It doesn’t necessarily mean anything about you or how great of a girlfriend you’ve been.
Maybe he’s not ready for something so serious, or maybe he’s a little unsure if you’re really the woman he sees himself spending the rest of his life with. Two people can love each other very much and still not be right for each other in the long run.
A man will feel “free” in a relationship when he’s with a woman who is whole and fulfilled in her life and doesn’t rely on the relationship to meet her every need.
Instead of trying to fix it and reel him back, forgive yourself for being needy, acknowledge that it’s OK and everything will be fine, and give him some space to come to you.And if he does, make sure you listen to him, don’t use this as an opportunity to voice your opinions on the matter and try to solve it for him. Remember, when a man pulls away due to stress it has to do with you or his feelings for you. You wouldn’t appreciate being forced into doing something that went against your nature and the same is true for him.I understand that you think he should open up to you, but you can’t place these expectations on him. When someone forces us to be a certain way it’s violating and invasive.You can’t force someone to open up to you, especially when it comes to difficult emotional topics.
You can invite them to open up, but you can’t badger them into it.Working overtime trying to undo the damage caused by acting needy is still you acting needy.