Hebrews 13:4 encourages us “ Following God’s rules rather than our own desires is the best guarantee for our long term happiness, also in the area of our sexuality. James had the privilege of growing up in Christian home, and decided to follow Jesus during his teenage years. at Oak Hill Theological College he and his wife spent five years as missionaries working in Thailand.After studying chemistry at university and working in the pharmaceutical industry, he began training for Christian ministry. He now lives in Cambridge, England, and is the pastor for International students at St Andrew the Great church.Also, in our culture, through "dating" people will often find a life partner and marry.How men and women view a "date" and "dating" can have a profound effect on their future.However, the Bible has a positive view of sex within marriage.
If "dating" is defined as two single friends of the opposite sex doing things together for fun without any attraction or romantic desire or intimacy involved at all, there is no issue to discuss regarding dating. The Bible describes and gives directions concerning friendship.Gen. says, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse tells us that marriage involves the husband and wife severing ties of intimate relationships with parents to cleave to each other.It involves coming together into a permanent bond of unity.It can involve affection as we work together in Christ, but affection is not a necessary element.
We are commanded in the Scriptures to show love to all believers, but we are not commanded to make all believers our friends.
"Dating" is not a relationship, it is a method people employ in our culture to get to know others of the opposite sex that was not employed in Biblical times.