There’s only one thing you need to remember when texting girls: Always text with a purpose – to arrange a meet up. BONUS: If she’s not texting back, Discover The Exact Texts you need to get her texting back and out on a date in our next article. So don’t wait until the next day to text a girl, or the day after that. Because there will never be a meet up if you keep making any one of these 21 mistakes. The 3 day rule is nonsense, in fact, our Dating Metrics survey revealed 89% of women want to be first contacted within 48 hours.Everything leading up to the meet up should demonstrate value, build her comfort levels and excitement about meeting you.Ok, so you’ve been down the gym, had a damn good workout and think she’d appreciate a ripped photo of you with your shirt off. If you haven’t built up enough attraction yet, topless photos will scare her off.Remember, hot girls receive dozens of texts a week from guys just like you. If you haven’t sparked enough emotion, she’ll more than likely turn you down.
Sure, it’s cool to be cool, but if you’re too cool, you’ll cool her off. If you don’t show any emotions she’ll think you’re not interested in her. If you got a text from someone you don’t know very well asking why you chose to become a lawyer, would you really be motivated to text them back?
Your level of investment must either match or be lower than hers, so adapt to her texting style and respond in tune with her. To avoid slipping into the friend zone at all costs, avoid idle chit chat like the plague.