And if you haven’t actually been meeting up or going on dates with him? If you feel like he is being shady and he isn’t giving you any reason to think otherwise, don’t fool yourself into believing he is worth sticking around for.There’s a chance he’s either seeing other women or doesn’t see you as important enough to take some time out of his busy schedule. The hardest part about the “bad” guys that should send you running… But trust me, as soon as you separate yourself from people that are toxic, your life will change for the better. You might be confusing being compatible with experiencing an up-and-down emotional rollercoaster.
“But you have to trust yourself to ask questions about things that make you feel uncomfortable.” “In the first blush of romance, people overlook a lot of stuff because they’re so excited,” says clinical psychologist Marie Hartwell-Walker, Ed D.Try clearing your mind of suspicion first, bring yourself to a “happy place”, and then try again.