I’ve talked to countless single men over the years about their experiences with women, especially those in midlife and beyond.Here are some of their stories of dating after 40; dating that never turned into relationships, this is.
The vast majority of these guys are not the self-centered, testosterone-led, immature boys you met (and maybe married) in your 20s or 30s. ) If you’ve read my e Book, 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love after 40, you know that I believe that empathizing with men is essential to your dating and relationship success.Since trust and affection are what men yearn for from women, he usually does her a favor and leaves…hence rendering her “right” once again.The Wow Me Woman The Wow Me Woman is a midlife gal who still thinks that excitement is the key to judging if a guy is a good match. Men sense her quick judgment, which leaves them feeling deflated, unattractive and powerless.She’s looking for her guy to be interesting, keep her laughing, ask her all about herself, and give her butterflies…all on the first date. That man then makes a poor impression (understandably), and the date is chalked up to another “he just wasn’t right for me” experience.
The Wow Me Woman is often single for a very, very long time.When he passes those tests or shows he has feelings for her, she questions it and might up the ante.