he wouldn't be talking about getting with some other girl, in front of that girl.Also, he wouldn't ever mention other 'hot girls.' Right? He could be throwing that out there to test the waters and see how you react to it.Guy: "I didn't really like it here at first, but my ex-girlfriend introduced me to lots of cool local places, so it grew on me."When I'm talking to a guy I've just met, and I'm interested in him, I don't find myself bringing up past relationships. Sounds like he was relating you things that relate to you. I was casually dating/hooking up with this guy over the summer and he brought up his ex a couple times.So I was just wondering if this even means anything... They dated for like 3 years so obviously she was present in many of his life experiences.I think in those scenarios it is pretty innocuous, if he's doing it all the time, like visiting any place, yeah me and my ex were here and did this, she liked it a lot more than you do.
Lars Tramilton has been writing professionally since 2007.Another sign that a guy is a rebounder is if he was the one that was dumped by his ex.If his ex-girlfriend initiated the breakup and he told you an elaborate and heart-wrenching story about the situation, he likely is trying to dull his pain with a temporary new and not-so-serious relationship -- unfortunately, with you.If a guy has a negative, pessimistic and overall bitter attitude when it comes to romantic relationships, it's probably because he still hasn't resolved his feelings about his last breakup, which means he isn't over it.
When a guy wants to move a relationship too fast, it also can be a sign that he is on the rebound.If you are dating a guy on the rebound, you are likely setting yourself up for feeling hurt and brokenhearted yourself.