But the women who are good at giving advice to men have spent a long time time learning about things from the male perspective.
And getting an idea of what goes on in “the kitchen”.
As I said before, none of these statements are untrue. But they’re useless, and they are misleading if taken seriously.
I don’t mean to say that women can’t give good dating advice to men.
The reason why women have a hard time giving good dating advice to men because they lack the right perspective.
Lets take some common advice you may have heard and translate into cooking advice.
I remember I used to hear the old advice: “Just be confident. If you translate that into cooking terms it might come out like: “Don’t over cook the food, but don’t undercook it either”. How about the fashion advice: “You should cut your hair and wear some xxx designer, women love that”.
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