With every box you need checked, you are eliminating the likelihood of actually meeting someone like that. All I would say is that you just need to be careful that your standards and expectations are realistic.If you are looking to marry Jesus, stop, because you already are.This advice is just some of the things I would tell someone who came into the counseling office.
Why expose yourself to all that sexual temptation if you know you will not marry that man?
But at least let him try before you totally shut him down. If you want something bad enough, you might be gullible enough to take their bait.