You will be elated in your heart that someone cares about you, and wants to kiss you… Gird your loins against the barbs flung at you and your partner. Embrace being a really hot lesbian with a super amazing girlfriend. Try to not be burned by them with every single uneducated, casual insult.
You’ll be playing this whether you like it or not a lot more often now. You may be seen as forward, or at least not shy enough.
Where complete strangers ask you about your genitals? Use some of your flirting skills from being at the bar while you are online. A lot of people online are too shy to go out, so they will not know how to respond to you.
This isn’t in reference to any particular difficulty facing trans women, though there are many; it is always helpful to lower your expectations. Ok Cupid, Match, or Tinder; it doesn’t really matter where, but you’ll need one.
Whatever you think might happen in the next few paragraphs, or in the next few months, expect less.
Don’t press anyone, and focus on enjoying yourself. Cool people are definitely not sweating horribly, right now, as they dance around the room, hoping for a match. or a giant snake.” At no point be seen unhinging your jaw to devour a goat.