She told me, "One minute he was so attentive, and then the next he didn't even want to talk to me. By running after his, she was preventing him from ever feeling that he needed her and wanted to be with her.I have tried everything to get him back but it only seems to make matters worse. She realized that she had done this in every relationship. By trying to maintain intimacy she had prevented it. Rubber band man Wild as the Taliban 9 in my right, 45 in my other hand Who I'm is?Call me trouble man, always in trouble man Worth a couple hundred grand, Chevys, all colors man [Verse 1] Rubber band man, like a one man band Treat these niggaz like the Apollo, and I'm the sandman Tote a hundred grand canon in the waistband Look'n fo' a sweet lick?
Adam Evans became Rubberband Man after the Big Bang.He doesn't feel any need for a period of getting reacquainted again. She and her boyfriend, Jeff, had been dating for six months. Then without any apparent reason he began to distance himself emotionally. She wanted to make things "right again," but the more she tried to get close to Jeff the more he pulled away. Months later at another seminar, Jeff thanked me for what Maggie had learned. Maggie had discovered a secret that few women know about men.WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT MENIf understood, this male intimacy cycle enriches a relationship, but because it is misunderstood it creates unnecessary problems. Maggie could not understand why he had suddenly pulled away. Maggie realized that when she was trying to get close while Jeff was trying to pull away, she was actually preventing him from stretching his full distance and then springing back.Like a stretched rubber band, he will distance himself and then come back all on his own.
A man pulls away to fulfill his need for independence or autonomy.The name "Rubberband Man", however, was used by a one-issue villain named Karmon Stringer.